
“Massage is about being emotionally present, touching your partner with intention, and paying attention to his reactions.” What could be sexier than that? Reprinted with Permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.Yes, brick-and-mortar sex shops are always a fun trip, but if you'd rather buy your clitoral stimulators, prostate massagers, and hands-free vibrators discreetly, the best sex toys at Amazon cover all of your sexual bases. “The quality of your touch is more important than technique,” says Peggy Morrison Horan, author of Connecting Through Touch and a founder of the Esalen Massage Program at Esalen Institute in Big Sur, CA. Intimate massage isn’t about perfection, so don’t worry about doing it “right.” Try to stay in the moment. Finish off with a little bit of friction on the soles of his feet. Next, knead his buttocks and thighs and stroke his calves. Squeeze a few drops of oil onto your hands and stroke his back.
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Try this basic routine to start (but feel free to add your own personal touches): Have your guy lie facedown. You can put any or all of these moves together in any order, depending on what your partner needs and how he responds to each touch.For smaller areas like the shoulder caps, soles of the feet, and palms, apply friction with your fingertips. Anchor the area you’re massaging with one hand, and use the other to deeply press and rub. Friction is done without oil and loosens up deep muscles.
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Simply lift and squeeze the area you’re working, with your palms in full contact with your partner’s skin.


If his back is in knots, concentrate on that. Pressed for time? Focusing on one part of his body - really focusing on it - can be even more decadent than a head-to-toe rubdown.

If you play music, keep it soft and slow. To avoid jarring chills, drape his naked body with sheets (uncover just the body part you’re working on).

Tie your hair back and wear close-fitting clothes to minimize distractions. The tickling of loose hair or a lacy nightie might excite him (and you), but it can also take his focus off the deep, steady sensations of your massage. Instead, try a light single scent, like jasmine, and warm the bottle in a bowl of hot water. Scented oils can be erotic, “but steer clear of intense fragrances, like patchouli, which get cloying,” says Steve Capellini, a licensed massage therapist in Miami and author of Massage for Dummies. Step 2: Break out the oilīesides making your hands soft and warm, massage oil reduces friction and makes it easier to knead, rub, and stroke your guy’s tired and stressed muscles. (Think how unrelaxing it would be to get a massage on a jiggly water bed.) For maximum comfort, have your guy lie down on a futon mattress or pallet of blankets and place pillows under his neck, knees, and ankles. A soft bed may be perfect for lovemaking, but the ideal massage area is firm, flat, and stable, so you don’t bounce your partner around as you move.
